“Why should I bother to get juicy, Susan, if I don’t have a partner?”

A number of women have asked me this question, and it’s so important that I decided to share my answers with you here.

Basically, I have 3 really good reasons for a woman to cultivate her juiciness, even if she doesn’t currently have an intimate partner.

First of all, when I speak about juiciness, I’m not just talking about its physical expression, because juicy means so much more than that. While juicy definitely does include the lubrication that can make lovemaking so enjoyable, there’s a much deeper meaning and opportunity here.  This involves tapping into our well of energy, vitality and life force that can lead to more pleasure, wellbeing and fulfillment in every area of life. And no one needs a partner in order to benefit from this.

Actually, it is our birthright. And at this 50+ time of life, we’ve definitely earned it!

Here’s reason #2. Although having an intimate partner is fantastic, we don’t actually require anyone else to be able to embrace our own pleasure. Self-pleasure is always available to us, and it’s actually highly recommended for many reasons, one of which is that it supports our production of oxytocin, the “love hormone” that helps balance our hormones and contribute to our juiciness.

This is really important, because we are in the “use it or lose it” time of life, and if we aren’t engaging with our sexuality, our bodies really can give up on keeping us juicy.

OK, here is reason #3. For those who are still focused on the partner issue, here is my question to you: Don’t you think you stand a much better chance of attracting a partner if you’re already feeling juicy?

On a chemical level, we send out all these wonderful pheromones when we’re in our juiciness; other people somehow get this right away, and it makes us way more attractive and desirable.  And on more subtle levels, being aligned with our energy and passion makes us more magnetic to everyone – including and especially potential partners.

So please…. Don’t wait for anyone else to give you a reason to get your juicy back, it is definitely your own to claim.

 

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